“We are the average of the five people we spend the most time with.” – You’ve probably heard this nugget of wisdom, or at least a version of it, countless times. It’s a reminder of the big an impact our social circles have on our lives. But how do you know if your social circle is top-notch or needs a little upgrade? 🤔
At Oopar, we’ve helped hundreds of people build their social circles. So, let’s dive into the six qualities that make a quality social circle. 😊
1. Diversity
Ever tried eating the same meal every day? It gets boring real fast. 😉 The same goes for your social circle. Friends from different backgrounds keep life interesting and help us grow. If your social circle looks like a clone army from your workplace, it might lack the diversity you need. Seek out friends with different lifestyles, interests, and roots to truly expand your horizons.
2. Authenticity: No Filter Needed
Does your social circle allow you to be your true, quirky self, or do you find yourself pretending to be someone you’re not? Authenticity is key. And it goes both ways; your friends should also feel comfortable being themselves around you.
3. Inspiration
Surround yourself with people who encourage you to be your best self. 🚀 Sure, friends are there for fun and unwinding, but they should also push you in the right direction in life. Do you and your friends talk about your goals? Do you work on your hobbies and habits together? If yes, you’re in an inspirational social circle.
4. Inclusivity
Feeling like an outsider in your own friend group can be hurtful. Everyone should feel welcome and valued. Ensure your circle is open to all and that plans aren’t made behind anyone’s back.
Tip💡: If your group is planning a trip and everyone’s input is considered, and everyone feels included, you’ve nailed inclusivity.
5. Availability
Having amazing friends scattered across the globe is great, but it’s essential to have friends you can hang out with in person regularly. A good social circle is one that’s accessible and available when you need them.
6. Reliability: The Foundation of Friendship
A friend in need is a friend indeed. Can you count on your friends when you need them? Trust and dependability are the bedrock of lasting friendships.
So, what’s your social circle like? Do your friends tick all these boxes, or is there room for improvement? Now that you know what’s missing in your social circle, it’s time to take an action. Here’s how you can start meeting some amazing new people with us at Oopar 🙂
Here’s to friendships that add color to your life! 🍀✨